Was just wondering today, would this ever work out (and would everyone else freak out)
Since most things in a relationship require work, I wonder what would happen if I just decided to get attached to a very simple girl. No big church leader/super-ons Christian. Loves God definitely, is a mature and stable Christian, but pretty much it.
Yup, no need to be loud, sociable, funny, gorgeous with another 15 optional attributes. Just plain and simple. Can click with me, and the rest will be worked out along the way.
Interests, that can (and must) be worked upon together.
Friends, get to know each others' friends (important anyway)
Goals in life, well apart from wanting to have a family, im quite ok with anything (God centered of course)
Looks, just simple and plain. No need for fashion sense, unique style etc (my personal grooming needs the most work anyway)
But really, the thought if she's not a person who's like into sermons and all, not a Hillsong/PS/CCC fan(atic), doesn't aspire to lead in the front lines of church, not a straight As/genius kind, not the most popular/famous person from school. Basically a nobody, or an "anybody" rather.
Will that work?
Probably will talk to Emil about it once he's returned to planet earth (and Sweden in particular) from Cloud 9 :)
(HONEST DISCLAIMER : THIS IS NOT A HINT NOR AN INDICATION I HAVE SOMEONE IN MIND, AND NO, THIS IS NOT REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY EITHER)